Friday, March 19, 2010

A New TOY and My 2 CentS!

We recently splurged (tax return) to buy the kids something they will enjoy for a long time!! We have already spent a lot of time outside this week soaking up some much needed sun, going to different parks and jumping on the TraMpolinE!! We still have to put the mat on and the enclosure to make it more safe. I am sure that we will have hours and hours of fun together as you can see from the pictures. I will say that it was really hard to get a decent picture of both kids jumping at the same time so here are several of them having a great time.


I love that Kenzie is crunched into a ball in mid air.
See what I mean...they were either on the bottom or in funny positions!

We have been loving nicer weather lately.
Last weekend I gave Taylor his first haircut. Well actually it was more of a trim, he had a long patch in the back that was turning into a long tail so I trimmed it up as well as a few other spots. He was pretty wiggly but it turned out cute anyway. He sure is growing up fast.
...and now for a little venting (aka-my 2 cents): Why is it that I always FREEZE when I should stand up for myself or my kids for that matter? I have read several blogs lately where moms find themselves in situations where others are so comfortable saying or doing whatever they want, even if it is none of their business or quite rude to tell you the truth! I too have been in similar situations and found myself in one of those jaw dropping, did she just do that, moments today. I was at the DI (I confess...I take the kids there quite often in search of a treasure or something cool they might love. As well as to pass some time when we need to get out of the house), anyway, while we were there the kids and I spent some time in the toy aisle. There have been a few times that I just can't find anything for the kids that is worth keeping due to broken or missing parts, and this was one of those days. So we rummaged through another section in the store to try to find McKenzie something that might make her happy, Payton had found a 50 cent toy that he was satisfied with. I found one of those Chinese fans that fold open and closed and are made of paper and sticks and handed it to her to look at for a minute-- it was only 25-50 cents and if she liked it I might have gotten it, until she was stripped of that choice by a concerned worker. My back was turned when this all happened, but I can put 2 and 2 together as best as I can, after turning around to see the older woman folding the fan back up and putting it back on the self in such a matter of fact way, and without saying a word. McKenzie then looked like she had been robbed and began to cry. I could tell that she had been offended by this, but the lady had gone back to putting other things away and I felt as if it were too late to approach her by that point, even though I desperately wanted to "Visit" with her! I scooped up McKenzie and let her look at the fan one more time, still debating if we were gonna buy this thing, and still stunned by this not so pleasant woman. We then went to another part of the store as I was being watched by this woman. As I was looking at some of the serving dishes I could tell she was trying to keep her eye on my kids to make sure they wouldn't touch ANYTHING! Does she not realize that ALL of these items have been donated, and that I was right there with them, and that they were actually behaving and being very good, and not to mention I AM their MOM!!! It was not like I had left them alone in the toy aisle like tons of others do while they continue their shopping and are no where in sight. Now that I have had some time to think, several things I wish I would have said come to mind. I am really not a confrontational person at all, but my motherly instinct makes me regret that I didn't say SOMETHING!! I wish most of all that that I would have at least said, "I am not quite sure what happened back there because I turned my back -FOR ONE SECOND- and now my little girl is crying, we were thinking of buying that, did you take it out of her hand?" Why can't I think of tactful things to say right there on the spot, but now that I am safe and sound at home my mind races with things to say, not really rude things but rather just standing up for myself and my kids. It was only 25 CENTS for heavens sake, and I would have paid for it if it just so happened to break!! Is a mom not allowed to go out and about shopping with kids in fear that others are not delighted with their presence?!

Monday, March 8, 2010

The Ones I Truely ADORE!

From youngest to OlDesT...


A friend of mine recently took some cute pictures of my kids, and I couldn't be happier! For more of her work check it out~http://www.swanfallsphotography.blogspot.com/ Now I just have to pick and choose which ones I want to print, there were so many good ones to choose from.

Taylor: 1 year old




McKenzie: 2 1/2 years old



Payton: 4 1/2 years old


Now for the story behind this picture (and yes he is totally fast asleep). Mckay and I finished putting all of the kids in bed and went downstairs to finish a movie that we had started. Just as the movie was coming to an end I heard a little moan coming from the stairs and quickly got up to see who had gotten out of bed. What do you know it was this little guy, at first we thought he was faking it, (like he sometimes does) but the more we looked at him we knew he was out like a light. Mckay scooped him up and tucked him back in bed. Then we started talking about how we remembered doing similar things when we were kids because we didn't want to be left out, and we kinda missed our parents... some things never change! This made me love my little guy even more, although I felt a little bad because I had no idea just how long he had been there, it made me wonder if he thought he would have gotten trouble or sent back to bed if he showed his face.
Oh Payton is growing so fast and learning new things everyday. Apparently he thinks he already know it all...
This was a conversation we had the other day:
Payton: Mom, I know EVERYTHING?!
Me: (As much as I really hate to admit this) Even I don't know EVERYTHING!
after a few seconds of thought he came back with this...
Payton: I'm SMART like K-MART SMART!
(I guess he has listened to a few too many K-Mart comercials), but it made me laugh anyway!!

***And last but not least...Mckay and I just hit our 6th year Anniversary! Yikes, that sounds like a long time but to tell you the truth it has gone by so fast. We celebrated by going on a date with just the 2 of us!! We ate dinner at PF Changs (I highly recommend it and want to go back ASAP). I love spending time with Mckay, he makes me so happy.


(This is not a perfect picture, but not bad considering Payton was our photographer)
At dinner he surprised me with this bracelet, one of the many reasons that I love him, he always knows how to make me feel special. Now whenever I look at this I will think of my handsome Mckay and the love we have for each other.